Tap Away Hurts from Childhood Abuse: Mother Wounds & Intergenerational Trauma

Would you prefer to thrive, instead of merely survive?


During a 4 year period, over 20 of my friends, family members and canine companions left the planet, (I stopped counting at 20)! My parents both died very, very slowly, from Lung Cancer, Strokes and Pneumonias… One particularly dreadful Christmas/New Years, my mother and my dog died within a few days of each other. The next year a friend killed himself in December, so I have some experience with grief!

When I was first introduced to Emotional Freedom Technique, (EFT), my life was a mess. I was full of sadness, resentments, frustrations and insecurities. I was seriously depressed. My mother had been emotionally and physically ill for most of my life. She had bipolar depression, suicidal thoughts, alcoholism and was addicted to multiple drugs prescribed by multiple Doctors. We did not have a good relationship beginning at my birth as a premature baby. I was in an incubator for 6 weeks and never breast fed, and rarely held by my mother. Because my grandmother, Mom's mother, was not particularly loving or kind towards her own daughter, Mom never learned how to be a great parent. As a result I too ended up suffering from low self esteem and rejection. While searching for help, I found a gifted EFT coach who helped me solve the mysteries of my own unhappiness while teaching me how to resolve my own inner conflicts. Nothing has helped me the way EFT has. The result: I am now WAY happier, considerably more content and much healthier, on all levels.

Alice Grange, EFT & Matrix Reimprinting Coach

alice and michaelMy old friends often remark on how much I have changed. It is apparently very evident! Having had a series of mostly dreadful co-dependent relationships over the past 30 plus years, (the lowest point was when I got involved with a drug addict/alcoholic who ended up stalking me), I am happy to report that for the past 6 years I have been in the best relationship of my life with a lovely man, who not only is supportive, interesting and fun, but who also loves to dance and travel as much as I do! And, for the past few years, I have actually been known to enjoy Christmas and New Years!

Now I help others who also experienced adverse childhoods, to find the relief I have found. You too can co-create happier, healthier relationships with others, and a life consistent with your values, dreams and desires


My Journey with EFT and Matrix Reimprinting

Since learning about EFT and taking numerous EFT UNIVERSE courses, I have worked with clients dealing with a vast variety of issues, (see case studies and success stories). My passion is guiding and supporting survivors of abuse, and others who have experienced the loss of parents, leaving them with unresolved issues from their childhoods and/or overwhelming sadness, stuckness and isolation.  My clients discover how to quickly release the hold limiting beliefs have while overcoming fear, grief, pain, anxiety and shame – allowing you to replace the life you have been enduring, with the life of your dreams. Imagine freeing yourself from your painful past; creating the emotional space needed in order to live the life you have longed for but have never felt was possible, until now!

The reason I LOVE working with EFT and MR is because they work! It is so wonderful watching faces change during  sessions; from looking tight and constricted to looking relaxed and happy! Some of my clients have been involved in other therapies that ended up retraumatizing them so it has been a welcome relief to find themselves laughing in my office. Witnessing the mental, physical and emotional shifts that happen as people experience AHA! moments is so life affirming. Helping to facilitate rapid changes in outlook as clients move from despondency, grief, rage, depression, pain and fear to joy, peace, self compassion, positivity, forgiveness and excitement about their lives brings me great joy!




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